How should my child share a link with someone?

Know what you are recommending

Research context: Ofcom reported in 2025 that 72% of teens ages 13–17 who used social media or messaging platforms said they helped them feel closer to friends. Source: Ofcom: From apps to AI search — how the UK goes online in 2025.

The child should be able to describe the page or video without relying only on a preview image. Check the actual title and source through an appropriate, trusted route. Do not open suspicious or unexpected links just to complete a social obligation. If the content is behind an account or payment requirement, say that rather than assuming the recipient has the same access. A link can be useful even when the message is only one sentence, provided that sentence supplies the missing context.

Choose the audience deliberately

A funny video suitable for a family conversation may not fit a school project chat. Ask whether the recipient wants the material and whether sharing it exposes private information. Avoid sending an account-specific or private document link to a broad group without checking its permissions and purpose. If the child wants to share their own project, use the approved sharing arrangement for that tool. Do not make a private file public merely to remove an access error without understanding who would gain access.

Keep the response pressure low

A phrase such as “This is the model-building video we talked about” is more helpful than demanding an immediate reaction. The recipient may not have time to view it or may prefer another format. Avoid repeatedly sending the same link because they have not responded. If the link changes or was sent in error, clarify through the appropriate conversation. The aim is a considered recommendation with useful context, not maximizing how many people open the material.