Get one useful clue
A question such as “What have they enjoyed looking at or reading lately?” can be more helpful than asking whether they like books. Check the exact title or subject so you do not buy another copy by accident. If you are choosing for a classroom exchange or a relative you rarely see, ask the responsible adult about relevant content preferences. Avoid turning the conversation into an assessment of the child’s reading level in front of other people.
Inspect the actual gift
Look inside the book or use a lawful sample to check the format, length, and content. A familiar character on the cover does not guarantee the edition matches what the child enjoys. Consider whether the book is intended for independent use, sharing with an adult, or writing directly on its pages. If the gift requires equipment, an app, or a paid service, make that clear before purchasing. Do not assume the recipient’s household wants another account to use a physical gift.
Give it without a performance requirement
Explain briefly what made you think of the child and let them respond naturally. Avoid asking them to read aloud immediately or promise to send a review. If an exchange is possible, provide the appropriate receipt and current terms privately through the caregiver. If the child already owns it, treat that as a practical mix-up rather than disappointment they must repair. The thought behind the gift can remain kind even when a different title turns out to fit better.